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For many, Christmas is not a season of joy and celebration, but one of grief, loneliness, or longing. It can be a time when the weight of loss feels especially heavy—whether it’s the first Christmas without a beloved family member, or simply a season that has always been difficult. Amid the cheerful carols and festive gatherings, it can be hard to find space to acknowledge the sadness or emptiness that may accompany the holidays.

A Space for Reflection and Healing
Christmas in a Minor Key offers a contemplative and gentle worship experience for those who find this season challenging. The purpose of this service is to remind participants that God’s Word comes to shine light into the dark places of their lives and to assure them that they are not alone. A sacred space to remember - Making space for sadness and loss. Together, we can honor the complexities of this time of year and find encouragement for the days ahead.

What to Expect

  • Music, prayer, poems, communion
  • Quiet, reflective music that soothes and uplifts.
  • Thoughtful reflections on the experience of Christmas in a time of loss or heartache.
  • The lighting of candles, offering moments of hope and remembrance.
  • Spaciousness to simply sit, breathe, and be present to your feelings.

Whether you are navigating grief, feeling disconnected from the holiday cheer, or simply seeking a moment of quiet amidst the bustle, you are warmly invited to join us. This is a space to be fully seen and supported, where you can acknowledge your sadness without judgment and find solace in the presence of others.

Who Is Welcome?
Everyone. All are truly welcome. If you or someone you know could benefit from this reflective and compassionate service, please consider joining us or sharing this invitation with others.

Event Details
Date: Friday, December 19
Time: 7 PM (PST)
Joint service with Oak Bay United Church

Location: In person only James Bay United Church

In the quiet glow of candlelight, let us create a space of peace and understanding this Christmas season. Together, we can find hope and light, even in the midst of life’s challenges.